Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Love Theories

When I left home, eleven months ago, I didn't realize all the things that will happen in this journey. And a proof of that is this post. Let me show you a post that I wrote several months ago, I hide it because I didn't want to think more about it. Today, reading it again, I discover how inspired I was in that moment, everything was clear, and I just realized this. Let me introduce you to... me, two things that define me in the deep of my heart: Love and science :P



Does somebody have a list of requirements, tasks, things to fall in love with a girl?? Sometime ago, I believed that, and I supposed that my list was wrong..... now I don't have a list :), actually I begin to think that there is no algorithm....

Regarding an exelent movie, maybe we always are looking for things that are measurable, we try to find a quantum of love, a measure that indicate me that people loves me. Now I can say that love is something more, more than a measure...

Is a feeling?... of course, love is a feeling.... you know what is love when you feel it!!!!! but its different, because is a shared feeling. Of course, you can love without someone's love, but its not the same, because you don't feel all what love is. Then, what is the difference with the others feelings?? I think that ithe difference is... believing... believe in the love of the other people. We don't need a quantum of love, the measure of love are not the gifts, kisses, poems, songs.... whatever that people give or say when they are in love. Its just to believe that people loves you.... that's the secret!!!

Belief and trust..... that's the point. If you don't believe and trust in the people, then you never be able to love and be loved. I know, this is really difficult, because it hurts when somebody brokes it.... but this is the risk of love.... this is the kind of risks that I like to take :) . Love only exists when you trust and believe in love.... and of curse in the people who love you :).

From my personal exp
erience, I am like St Tomas, not believe until I see... I am accustomed to test everything, because my scientific training, but I learned that there are somethings that cannot be tested, like faith or love. I always try to find the answers to the questions.... It's better if I quote a spechless of one of my favorites movies, A beautiful mind. At the end of the movie when John Nash is speaking he said: "I've always believed in numbers and the equations and logics that lead to reason." For me is the same, I need a proof to believe in things, then I asked to me, what about happiness, can be proven??

The answer is easy, no. I defined some items that you have to achieve to be happy. I was wrong!!!!! Maybe it depends, can vary from person to person. For me happinnes can be defined by one word, LOVE! You can have a job, have money, have a family, have all, but if you don't have love.... for me love works..... In a systems way, love could be the relationships between all the things in life. Without love, nothing can works...

As John Nash said : "
It's only in the mysterious equation of love that any logical reasons can be found". I know that love is maybe the most illogical thing that you can feel :P . But when your life is connected with love, you will be able to so whatever you can get. As I heared in a song (Thank you Raga :P) "The soul has no limitation" And you know what they said... that love is the language of the soul :D....



Now, months after write this I realize that is true, all of this is true. Now I don't have this connections between all my life things, but love is still there, waiting to be reactivated....

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